Have a wonder ful Day!!

make it worthwhile

make it worthwhile

Start your day with fresh fruits or juice

have some fresh air and breath deeply

whenever you can smile genuinely

at least once a day stay away from smoking

be active

try to spare 20 minutes for physical exercise

everyday have your sleep

out love your green vegetables

spend more quality time with your loved ones

keep stress away from your life!

love Jambu

17 Counterintuitive Things Successful People Do

Success

Success

1) They pick fights to test others resolve in their own beliefs.

in business you can’t turn over the reins to someone who doesn’t know how to defend their own ideas and plans.

2) Isolate yourself to re-energize

if you charge when you are by yourself you need to seek out isolation from time to time.

3)Purposefully offend

Sometimes the only way to get someones attention is to call him or her out

4)Hyper self critical

of your own standards and choices

5)Peacock

Don’t give others the option not to see you or hear your message.

6)Repeat mistakes enough times until we really learn the lesson

We hardly learn anything truly worthwhile one try.

7)Seek out rejection to get dis-sensitized to the fear of it

Once we lose the fear of rejection, we more easily go after what we want, and thus get more of it.

8)Ignore consensus

when your own data and foresight is convincingly contrary to the wisdom of the crowd

9)Expect nothing in return for helping your peers

10)Quit those en devours you will never win at and take a new swing at the plate

don’t double down on a losing effort by not knowing when to walk away.

11)Play possum with your competitors

Don’t be so eager to show off your strengths until it’s the perfect time to strike

12)Get C’s instead of A’s

If you excel in non-traditional environments (like Entrepreneurs) & can justify the opportunity cost of your time.

13)Become indifferent to slights

Because time and energy are too valuable to waste on petty matters

14)Self Sabotage yourself when you find yourself mired in complacency

Don’t ever get too comfortable  with the status quo, always be willing to blow it up and start all over again to truly create something better

15)Abstain from work which others can do for you

Delegate every task that others can do 80% as well as you, and focus on those items that only you can achieve that have big payoffs.

16)Plot and scheme your next couple moves ahead

know where you are going far in advance of making your first move.

17)Underestimate demand for your products and services

Don’t ever assume people want what you got, and you will always have the appropriate amount of urgency and hustle to validate what you are trying to achieve.

Good luck is another name for tenacity of purpose!

Good Luck!!

Good Luck!!

 Luck Quotes …

Here are more luck quotes:

  • “Ability is of little account without opportunity.“ – Lucille Ball
  • “Bad things happen to good people.“  – Anonymous
  • “Being deeply learned and skilled, being well trained and using well spoken words; This is good luck.“– Anonymous
  • “Don’t luck into success.“ – Anonymous
  • “Everything in life is luck.“ – Donald Trump
  • “Fortune brings in some boats that are not steered.“ – William Shakespeare
  • Good luck beats early rising.“ – Proverb
  • “Good luck is another name for tenacity of purpose.“ – Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “Good luck is the willing handmaid of a upright and energetic character, and conscientious observance of duty.“ – James Russell Lowell
  • Good things come to those who wait.“ – Anonymous
  • “I believe in luck: how else can you explain the success of those you dislike?“ – Jean Cocteau
  • “If one does not know to which port is sailing, no wind is favorable.“ – Seneca
  • “I’m a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work, the more I have of it.“ – Thomas Jefferson
  • “If you view all the things that happen to you, both good and bad, as opportunities, then you operate out of a higher level of consciousness.“ – Les Brown
  • “In the middle of every difficulty lies opportunity.“ – Albert Einstein
  • “It’s hard to detect good luck – it looks so much like something you’ve earned.“ – Frank A. Clark
  • “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.“ – John Lennon
  • “Luck affects everything; let your hook always be cast; in the stream where you least expect it, there will be a fish.“ – Ovid
  • “Luck has a peculiar habit of favoring those who don’t depend on it.“ – Anonymous
  • “Luck is believing you’re lucky.“ – Tennessee Williams
  • “Luck is tenacity of purpose.“ – Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “Luck is the idol of the idle.” – Proverb
  • “Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.” – Seneca
  • “Luck is what you have left over after you give 100 percent.” – Langston Coleman
  • “Luck never gives; it only lends.“ – Proverb
  • “Luck never made a man wise.“ – Seneca
  • “Luck, bad if not good, will always be with us. But it has a way of favoring the intelligent and showing its back to the stupid.“ – John Dewey
  • “Luck? I don’t know anything about luck. I’ve never banked on it and I’m afraid of people who do. Luck to me is something else: Hard work – and realizing what is opportunity and what isn’t.“ – Lucille Ball
  • “Lucky at cards, unlucky in love.“ – Proverb
  • “Maybe I’m lucky to be going so slowly, because I may be going in the wrong direction.“ – Ashleigh Brilliant
  • “May good luck be your friend in whatever you do and may trouble be always a stranger to you.“ – Anonymous
  • “May your pockets be heavy and your heart be light. May good luck pursue you each morning and night.“ – Anonymous
  • Nature creates ability; luck provides it with opportunity.“ – François de la Rochefoucauld
  • “Opportunity is missed by most because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.“ – Thomas Edison
  • “Small opportunities are often the beginning of great enterprises.“ – Demosthenes
  • “Shallow men believe in luck. Strong men believe in cause and effect.“ – Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “So it’s probably eighty percent luck and twenty percent skill.“ – Chris LeDoux
  • “The day you decide to do it is your lucky day.“ – Proverb
  • The meeting of preparation with opportunity generates the offspring we call luck.“ – Tony Robbins
  • “The only sure thing about luck is that it will change.“ – Bret Harte
  • “Unlucky at cards, lucky in love.“ – Proverb
  • “When I work fourteen hours a day, seven days a week, I get lucky.“ – Dr. Armand Hammer

Valentines Quotes

Panganay!

Panganay!

 

Broken Hearts and Loss

  • ‘Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. – Alfred Lord Tennyson
  • Hearts will be practical only when they are made unbreakable. – The Wizard of Oz
  • How come we don’t always know when love begins, but we always know when it ends? – L.A. Story
  • If the people we love are stolen from us, the way to have them live on, is to remember them. Buildings burn, people die, but real love is forever. – The Crow
  • If you love something, set it free; if it comes back it’s yours, if it doesn’t, it never was. – Richard Bach
  • Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop. – Unknown
  • That’s why they call them crushes. If they were easy, they’d call them something else. – Sixteen Candles
  • The hottest love has the coldest end. – Socrates
  • The love that lasts the longest is the love that is never returned. – William Somerset Maugham
  • To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful. – Bess Myerson
  • Who do you turn to when the only person in the world that can stop you from crying, is exactly the one making you cry? – Unknown

Falling in Love

  • A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears. – Woodrow Wyatt
  • Do you ever put your arms out and just spin and spin and spin? Well, that’s what love is like. Everything inside of you tells you to stop before you fall, but you just keep going. – Practical Magic
  • Do you want to know the easiest way to fall in love? Just associate with all your pleasant experiences with someone, and disassociate from all the unpleasant ones. — Richard Bandler
  • Fate exists but it can only take you so far, because once you’re there, it’s up to you to make it happen. – Can’t Hardly Wait
  • Love is like a butterfly, it settles upon you when you least expect it. – Unknown
  • To be loved, be lovable. – Unknown
  • Wise men say, only fools rush in. But I can’t help falling in love with you. – Elvis Presley

Fear

  • If you love someone you say it, you say it right then, out loud. Otherwise the moment just … passes you by. – My Best friend’s Wedding
  • I would rather have eyes that cannot see; ears that cannot hear; lips that cannot speak, than a heart that cannot love. – Robert Tizon
  • Tell her that you love her. You’ve got nothing to lose, and you’ll always regret it if you don’t. – Love Actually
  • You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.- Barbara De Angelis
  • What is love … Oh baby, don’t hurt me … Don’t hurt me no more. – Haddaway

Fun

  • If love is the answer, can you please repeat the question? – Unknown
  • Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience. – Samuel Johnson
  • My husband and I fell in love at first sight… maybe I should have taken a second look. – Crimes and Misdemeanors
  • Nothing spoils the taste of peanut butter like unrequited love. – Charlie Brown
  • Swoon. I’ll catch you. – The English Patient
  • You are what I never knew I always wanted. – Fools Rush In
  • You can’t put a price tag on love, but you can on all its accessories. – Melanie Clark
  • Your heart is my piñata. – Chuck Palahniuk

Kissing

  • A kiss isn’t worth anything until you give it to somebody else. – Unknown
  • For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul. – Judy Garland
  • Kiss me. Kiss me as if it were the last time. – Casablanca
  • There have been five great kisses since 1642 B.C. (before then couples hooked thumbs) … and the precise rating of kisses is a terribly difficult thing, often leading to great controversy.  Well, this one left them all behind. – The Princess Bride
  • What do you want to marry me for anyhow? … So I can kiss you anytime I want. – Sweet Home Alabama
  • You know, that moment when you kiss someone and everything around you becomes hazy. And the only thing in focus is you and that person. And you realize that that person is the only person that you’re supposed to kiss for the rest of your life. And for one moment you get this gift. And you want to laugh and you want to cry because you feel so lucky that you found it and so scared that it will go away all at the same time. – Never Been Kissed

Love and Life

  • A life filled with love must have some thorns, but a life empty of love will have no roses. – Unknown
  • All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone to make us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope, all the while wondering if somewhere, somehow, someone perfect is searching for us. – The Wonder Years
  • Beginnings are usually scary and endings are usually sad, but it’s everything in between that makes it all worth living. – Hope Floats
  • Life is messy. Love is messier. – Catch and Release
  • Love doesn’t just sit there like a stone; it has to be made – like bread, remade all the time, made new. – Ursula K. LeGuin
  • Love grows by giving. The love we give away is the only love we keep. The only way to retain love is to give it away. – Elbert Hubbard
  • Love makes life so confusing, but without love would you really want to live? – Unknown
  • The rules of fair play do not apply in love and war.- John Lyly
  • The secret of love is seeking variety in your life together, and never letting routine chords dull the melody of your romance.- Unknown

Significance and Meaning

  • I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you. – Roy Croft
  • No one is perfect until you fall in love with them. – Unknown
  • The greatest possession we have costs nothing, it’s known as love. – Brian Jett
  • There are four questions of value in life… What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for, and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love. – Don Juan DeMarco
  • To be able to say how much you love is to love but little.- Petrarch
  • To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world. – Unknown
  • We cannot do great things on this Earth, only small things with great love. – Mother Teresa
  • What’s in a name? That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet. – William Shakespeare
  • You will see a lot of things, but they will mean nothing to you, if you lose sight of the thing you love. – At First Sight

The Power of Love

  • All you need is love, love, love is all you need. – The Beatles
  • Faith makes all things possible. Love makes them easy. – Unknown
  • I will find you. No matter how long it will take, no matter how far. – The Last Of The Mohicans
  • Let your heart guide you. It whispers so listen carefully. – The Land Before Time
  • Love has given me wings, so I must fly. – A Knight’s Tale
  • Love is like a knife, it can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that will last a lifetime. – Unknown
  • Suddenly the world seems such a perfect place, suddenly it moves with such a perfect grace, suddenly my life doesn’t seem such a waste, it all revolves around you. – Moulin Rouge
  • Take love, multiply it by infinity and take it to the depths of forever.. and you still have only a glimpse of how I feel for you. – Meet Joe Black
  • The best love is the kind that weakens the soul, that makes us reach for more, that plants fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that’s what you’ve given me. That’s what I hope to give to you forever. – The Notebook
  • When a man loves a woman, he can’t keep his mind on nothing else. – Percy Sledge
  • When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace. – Jimi Hendrix

True Love

  • Don’t say we aren’t right for each other, the way i see it is … we aren’t right for anyone else. – The Cutting Edge
  • Have you never met a woman who inspires you to love? Until your every sense is filled with her? You inhale her. You taste her. You see your unborn children in her eyes and know that your heart has at last found a home. Your life begins with her, and without her it must surely end. – Don Juan DeMarco
  • I am someone else when I’m with you, someone more like myself. – Original Sin
  • I wonder how many people never get the one they want, but end up with the one they’re supposed to have. – Fried Green Tomatoes
  • Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman, but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man. – Unknown
  • This kind of certainty comes but once in a lifetime. – Bridges of Madison County
  • True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. – Kissing A Fool
  • True love is like a fine wine, the older the better. – Fred Jacob
  • True love is when your heart and your minds are saying the same thing.- Leanna L. Bartram
  • Trying to make someone fall in love with you is about as pointless as trying to control who you fall in love with. – Unknown
  • You’re not perfect sport, and let me save you the suspense, this girl you met, she isn’t perfect either. But the question is whether or not you’re perfect for each other. – Good Will Hunting
  • We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. – Unknown

General

  • A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. –Mignon McLaughlin
  • An immature love says I love you because I need you, but a mature love says I need you because I love you. – Unknown
  • I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. – Mother Teresa
  • I love you. I am who I am because of you. You are every reason, every hope, and every dream I’ve ever had, and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday we are together is the greatest day of my life. I will always be yours. – The Notebook
  • In these dreams I’ve loved you so, that by now I think I know what it’s like to be loved by you. I will love being loved by you. – The King and I
  • I’ve been saying it so long to you, you just wouldn’t listen. Every time you said ‘Farm Boy do this’ you thought I was answering ‘As you wish’ but that’s only because you were hearing wrong. ‘I love you’ was what it was, but you never heard. – The Princess Bride
  • Love comforteth like sunshine after rain. – William Shakespeare
  • Summer romances begin for all kinds of reasons, but when all is said and done, they have one thing in common. They’re shooting stars, a spectacular moment of light in the heavens, fleeting glimpse of eternity, and in a flash they’re gone. – The Notebook
  • The heart has its reasons that reason does not know.- Pascal
  • The mark of a true crush, Is that you fall in love first, and grope for reasons afterward. -Shana Alexander
  • What will NY152 say today, I wonder. I turn on my computer, I wait impatiently as it boots up. I go online, and my breath catches in my chest until I hear three little words: You’ve got mail. I hear nothing, not even a sound on the streets of New York, just the beat of my own heart. I have mail. From you. – You’ve Got Mail
  • When they ask me what I liked best, I’ll tell them it was you. – City Of Angels

 

 

Visionary

Visionary

 

Cowardice asks the question – is it safe? Expediency asks the question – is it politic? Vanity asks the question – is it popular? But conscience asks the question – is it right? And there comes a time when one must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular; but one must take it BECAUSE it is right.
- Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

 

 

Personal Development Quotes.

“Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.” — Albert Einstein

“Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.” — Albert Einstein

Character
  • “A good criterion for measuring success in life is the number of people you have made happy.” — Robert J. Lumsden
  • “A good heart is better than all the heads in the world.”Edward Bulwer-Lytton
  • “A man who finds no satisfaction in himself will seek for it in vain elsewhere.” — La Rochefoucauld
  • “Ability may take you to the top, but it takes character to stay there.” — William Blake
  • “Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”Bruce Lee
  • “Be humble always and identify with the common man; even when success and achievements want to make you proud.”  — Bishop Leonard Umumna
  • “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” — Dr. Seuss
  • “Everybody wants to be somebody; nobody wants to grow.”Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
  • “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.” — Reinhold H. Niebuhr
  • “I do not think there is any other quality so essential to success of any kind as the quality of perseverance.  It overcomes almost everything, even nature.” – John D. Rockefeller
  • “I don’t have to be what nobody else wants me to be and I am not afraid to be what I want to be.” — Muhammad Ali
  • “I praise loudly; I blame softly.” – Queen Catherine II
  • “I studied the lives of great men and women, and I found that the men and women who got to the top were those who did the jobs they had in hand, with everything they had of energy and enthusiasm and hard work.” — Harry S. Truman
  • “I will speak ill of no one and speak all the good I know of everybody.” — Andrew Jackson
  • “Insist on yourself. Never imitate.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “It is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude.”  — Zig Ziglar
  • “I’ve never seen a monument erected to a pessimist.” — Paul Harvey
  • “Knowledge will give you power, but character respect.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Learn how to be happy with what you have while you pursue all that you want.”Jim Rohn
  • “Let this be the criteria by which you measure all things: Is this an act of love?” – Unknown
  • “Optimists are right.  So are pessimists.  It’s up to you to choose which you will be.” — Harvey Mackay
  • “People tend to think that happiness is a stroke of luck, something that will descend like fine weather if you’re fortunate. But happiness is the result of personal effort. You fight for it, strive for it, insist upon it, and sometimes even travel around the world looking for it. You have to participate relentlessly.” — Elizabeth Gilbert
  • “The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather a lack of will.”  — Vince Lombardi
  • “The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra.” — Jimmy Johnson
  • “The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his feet.” – James Oppenheim
  • “The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.”William Arthur Ward
  • “The superior man is modest in his speech, but exceeds in his actions.” – Confucius
  • “The true measure of a man is not how he behaves in moments of comfort and convenience but how he stands at times of controversy and challenges.”Martin Luther King Jr.
  • “The way to gain a good reputation, is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear.” – Socrates
  • What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others.” – Confucius
  • “We are what we frequently do.” – Aristotle
  • “We first make our habits, and then our habits make us.” — John Dryden
  • “What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.” – Confucius
  • “What you habitually think largely determines what you will ultimately become.” — Bruce Lee
Effectiveness
  • “All fixed set patterns are incapable of adaptability or pliability. The truth is outside of all fixed patterns.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Be like water making its way through cracks. Do not be assertive, but adjust to the object, and you shall find a way round or through it. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.” — Benjamin Franklin
  • “Fear less, hope more, eat less, chew more, whine less, breathe more, talk less, say more, hate less, love more, and good things will be yours.” — Swedish Proverb
  • “For it matters not how small the beginning may seem to be.  What is once well done, is well done forever.”Henry David Thoreau
  • “Forget yourself and start to work.”Gordon B. Hinckley
  • “Fortunate is the person who has developed the self-control to steer a straight course towards his objectives in life, without being swayed from his purpose by either commendation or condemnation.” — Napoleon Hill
  • “He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often and loved much.”Bessie Anderson Stanley
  • “In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins, not through strength, but through persistence.” – Buddha
  • “Life is a series of problem-solving opportunities.  The problems you face will either defeat you or develop you depending on how you respond to them.” — Rick Warren
  • “People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.” — Dale Carnegie
  • “Put your heart, mind, intellect, and soul even to your smallest acts.  This is the secret of success.” – Swami Sivandanda
  • “Striving for success without hard work is like trying to harvest where you haven’t planted.” — David Bly
  • “Success is doing ordinary things extraordinary well.” — Jim Rohn
  • “Success is every minute you live.  It’s the process of living.  It’s stopping for the moments of beauty, of pleasure; the moments of peace.  Success is not a destination that you ever reach.  Success is the quality of the journey.” — Jennifer James
  • “Success is going from failure to failure without losing your enthusiasm.” — Winston Churchill
  • “Success is not measured by what a man accomplished, but by the opposition he has encountered and the courage with which he has maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.” – Charles Lindberg
  • “Success is not so much what we have, as it is what we are.” — Jim Rohn
  • “Success is not the key to happiness.  Happiness is the key to success.  If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.” — Albert Schweitzer
  • “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become.” — Jim Rohn
  • “Success is the sum of small efforts repeated day in and day out.” — Robert Collier
  • “Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which he has overcome while trying to succeed.” — Booker T. Washington
  • “Success it the progressive realization of worthwhile, predetermined, personal goals.” — Paul J. Meyer
  • “Success often comes to those who dare to act.  It seldom goes to the timid who are ever afraid of the consequences.” — Jawaharlal Nehru
  • “Successful and unsuccessful people do not vary greatly in their abilities.  They vary in their desire to reach their potential.” — John Maxwell
  • “Successful leaders see the opportunities in every difficulty rather than the difficulty  in every opportunity.” — Reed Markham
  • “The best rules to form a young man are: to talk little, to hear much, to reflect alone upon what has passed in company, to distrust one’s own opinions, and value others that deserve it.” — Sir William Temple
  • “The key to immortality is first living a life worth remembering.” — Bruce Lee
  • “The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.” — Steven Covey
  • “The man who will use his skill and constructive imagination to see how much he can give for a dollar, instead of how little he can give for a dollar, is bound to succeed.” – Henry Ford
  • “The secret of success is consistency of purpose.” — Benjamin Disraeli
  • “The test of a successful person is not an ability to eliminate all problems before they arise, but to meet and work out difficulties when they do arise.  We must be willing to make an intelligent compromise with perfection lest we wait forever before taking action.  It is still good advice to cross bridges when we come to them.” — David Schwartz
  • “There is only one way to succeed in anything, and that is to give it everything.” — Vince Lombardi
  • “To be successful, you must decide exactly what you want to accomplish, then resolve to pay the price to get it.” — Bunker Hunt
  • “To go beyond is as wrong as to fall short.” – Confucius
Emotional Intelligence
  • “Don’t let the negativity given to you by the world disempower you. Instead give to yourself that which empowers you.” — Les Brown
  • “Energy and persistence conquer all things.” – Benjamin Franklin
  • “Enthusiam is the steam that drives the engine.” – Napoleon Hill
  • “Enthusiasm spells the difference between mediocrity and accomplishment.” — Norman Vincent Peale
  • “Flaming enthusiasm, backed by horse-sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success.” — Dale Carnegie
  • “Nothing is so contagious as enthusiasm.  It moves stones, it charms brutes.  Enthusiasm is the genius of sincerity, and truth accomplishes no victories without it.” — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
  • “People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing … that’s why we recommend it daily.”  — Zig Ziglar
Empowerment
  • “Action is the foundational key to all success.” — Tony Robins
  • “Always bear in mind that our own resolution to succeed is more important than any other one thing.” — Abraham Lincoln
  • Anything in life worth having is worth working for.” — Andrew Carnegie
  • “Do, or do not. There is no try.” – Yoda
  • “Do not be tense, just be ready, not thinking but not dreaming, not being set but being flexible. It is being ‘wholly’ and quietly alive, aware and alert, ready for whatever may come.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “Don’t be afraid your life will end; be afraid that it will never begin.” — Grace Hansen
  • “Don’t dream it. Be it!” — Richard O’Brian
  • “Follow your bliss!” — Joseph Campbell
  • “Follow your dream as long as you live, do not lessen the time of following desire, for wasting time is an abomination of the spirit.” – Plato
  • “Follow your honest convictions, and stay strong.” — William Thackeray
  • “For every mountain there is a miracle.” — Robert H. Schuller
  • “I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul.” — William Ernest Henley
  • “I don’t count the days, I make the days count!” — Muhammad Ali
  • “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours.” — Henry David Thorough
  • “If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else. It will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.” — Bruce Lee
  • “If you are going through hell, keep going.” — Winston Churchill
  • “If you can imagine it, you can create it.  If you can dream it, you can become it.” — William Arthur Ward
  • “If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it.  If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.” — Nora Roberts
  • “In life, as in a football game, the principle to follow is: Hit the line hard.” — Theodore Roosevelt
  • “It does not matter how slowly you go so long as you do not stop.” – Confucius
  • “It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.” – Seneca
  • “It takes a strong fish to swim against the current.  Even a dead one can float with it.” — John Crowe
  • “Kites rise highest against the wind – not with it.” — Winston Churchill
  • “Knowledge without follow-through is worse than no knowledge.” — Henry Charles Bukowski
  • “Leap and the net will appear.” — Julia Cameron
  • “Live out your imagination, not your history.” — Stephen Covey
  • “May you live all the days of your life.” — Jonathan Swift
  • “Never be afraid to tread the path alone.  Know which is your path and follow it wherever it may lead you; do not feel you have to follow in someone else’s footsteps.” — Eileen Caddy
  • “People are always blaming circumstances for what they are.  I don’t believe in circumstances.  The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want and if they can’t find them, make them.” — George Bernard Shaw
  • “The history of the world is the history of a few people who had faith in themselves.” — Swami Vivekananda
  • “The man who moved a mountain was the one who began carrying away small stones.” — Chinese Proverb
  • “The secret of success is to be ready when your opportunity comes.” — Benjamin Disraeli
  • “There are two primary choices in life:  to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.”  — Denis Waitley
  • “To hell with circumstances; I create opportunities.” — Bruce Lee
  • “To move the world we must first move ourselves.” – Socrates
  • “We will either find a way or make one.” – Hannibal
  • “Whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely believe, and enthusiastically act upon must inevitably come to pass.” — Paul J. Meyer
Influence and Impact
  • “Dependent people need others to get what they want.  Independent people can get what they want through their own efforts.  Interdependent people combine their own efforts with the efforts of others to achieve their greatest success.” — Stephen Covey
  • “It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed.” — Napoleon Hill
  • “Keep away from small people who try to belittle your ambitions.  Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you too can become great.” — Mark Twain
  • “Many hands and hearts and minds generally contribute to anyone’s notable achievements.” — Walt Disney
  • “Surround yourself with only people who are going to lift you higher.” — Oprah Winfrey
  • “Try to forget yourself in the service of others.  For when we think too much of ourselves and our own interests, we easily become despondent.  But when we work for others, our efforts return to bless us.” — Sidney Powell
  • “Virtue is not left to stand alone. He who practices it will have neighbors.” — Confucius
Learning and Growth
  • “A master lives in the world of transformation, not the world of loss and gain.” — Dr. John Demartini
  • “Be not afraid of growing slowly; be afraid only of standing still.” — Chinese Proverb
  • “Better a diamond with a flaw than a pebble without one.” — Chinese Proverb
  • “Change and growth take place when a person has risked himself and dares to become involved with experimenting with his own life.” — Herbert Otto
  • “Collect as precious pearls the words of the wise and virtuous.” – Abd El-Kader
  • “Develop success from failures.  Discouragement and failure are two of the surest stepping stones to success.” — Dale Carnegie
  • “Do not despise the bottom rungs in the ascent to greatness.” – Publilius Syrus
  • “Don’t fear failure.  Not failure, but low aim, is the crime. In great attempts it is glorious even to fail.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Don’t let the fear of striking out hold you back.” — Babe Ruth
  • “Each problem that I solved became a rule which served afterwards to solve other problems.” — Rene Descartes
  • “Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed on an equal or greater benefit.” — Napoleon Hill
  • “Every day do something that will inch you closer to a better tomorrow.” — Doug Firebaugh
  • “He who is not courageous enough to take risks will accomplish nothing in life.” — Muhammad Ali
  • “I don’t measure a man’s success by how high he climbs but how high he bounces when he hits bottom.” — George Patton
  • “I like a state of continual becoming, with a goal in front and not behind.” — George Bernard Shaw
  • “If we do not plant knowledge when young, it will give us no shade when we are old.” — Lord Chesterfield
  • “If you aren’t making any mistakes, it’s a sure sign you’re playing it too safe.” — John Maxwell
  • “If you learn only methods, you’ll be tied to your methods, but if you learn principles you can devise your own methods.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “If you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate.” — Thomas Watson, Sr
  • “In order to succeed you must fail so that you know what not to do the next time.” — Anthony J.  D’Angelo
  • “It is true that the mental aspect of kung-fu is the desired end; however, to achieve this end, technical skill must come first.” — Bruce Lee
  • “It is wise to keep in mind that neither success nor failure is ever final.” — Roger Babson
  • “I’ve always tried to go one step past wherever people expected me to end up.” — Beverly Sills
  • “Never walk away from failure.  On the contrary, study it carefully and imaginatively for its hidden assets.” — Michael Korda
  • “Only those who risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.” — T.S. Eliot
  • “Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do.” – Confucius
  • “Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.” — African Proverb
  • “So go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can.  Because that’s where you will find success. On the far side of failure.” — Thomas J.Watson, Sr.
  • “Success is a journey, not a destination.” — Ben Sweetland
  • “That which does not kill us makes us stronger.”  — Friedrich Nietzsche
  • “The fact is, that to do anything in the world worth doing, we must not stand back shivering and thinking of the cold and danger, but jump in and scramble through as well as we can.” — Robert Cushing
  • “The highest reward for one’s toil is not what one gets for it, but what one becomes by it.” — John Ruskin
  • “The men who try to do something and fail are infinitely better than those who try to do nothing and succeed.” — Lloyd Jones
  • “The real voyage of discovery consists of not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.” – Proust
  • “The successful man will profit from his mistakes and try again in a different way.” — Dale Carnegie
  • “There are no secrets to success.  It is the result of preparation, hard work, and learning from failure.” — Colin Powell
  • “There are two mistakes one can make along the road to truth — not going all the way, and not starting.” – Buddha
  • “Those at the top of the mountain didn’t fall there.” — Marcus Washling
  • “To climb steep hills requires a slow pace at first.” – Shakespeare
  • “To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom.” — Bertrand Russell
  • “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.” — Mark Twain
  • “Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.” — Ronald Osborn
  • “We learn wisdom from failure much more than from success; we often discover what will do, by finding out what will not do; and probably he who never makes a mistake never made a discovery.” — Samuel Smiles
  • “We must never be afraid to go too far, for success lies just beyond.” — Marcel Proust
  • “We only become what we are by the radical and deep-seated refusal of that which others have made of us.” — Jean-Paul Sartre
  • What would you attempt to do if you knew you would not fail?” — Robert Schuller
Productivity
  • “A goal is not always meant to be reached, it often serves simply as something to aim at.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Art calls for complete mastery of techniques, developed by reflection within the soul.” — Bruce Lee
  • “For anything worth having one must pay the price; and the price is always work, patience, love, self-sacrifice.  No paper currency, no promises to pay, but the gold of real service.” — John Burroughs
  • “Great works are performed not by strength but by perseverance.” — Samuel Johnson
  • “If you don’t have daily objectives, you qualify as a dreamer.”  ~ Zig Ziglar
  • “If you go to work on your goals, your goals will go to work on you.  If you go to work on your plan, your plan will go to work on you.  Whatever good things we build end up building us.” — Jim Rohn
  • “If you want to be happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts, liberates your energy, and inspires your hopes.” — Andrew Carnegie
  • “It’s not the daily increase but daily decrease. Hack away at the unessential.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Make a success of living by seeing the goal and aiming for it unswervingly.” — Cecil B. De Mille
  • “Motivation is what gets you started.  Habit is what keeps you going!” — Jim Ryun
  • “Never let your work drive you.  Master it and keep it in complete control.” — Booker T. Washington
  • “No one ever attains very eminent success by simply doing what is required of him; it is the amount and excellence of what is over and above the required that determines the greatness of ultimate distinction.” — Charles Kendall Adams
  • “Nothing ever comes to one that is worth having except as a result of hard work.” — Booker T. Washington
  • “Obstacles are those frightful things you can see when you take your eyes off your goal.” — Henry Ford
  • “One must have strategies to execute dreams.” — Azim Premji
  • “People with goals succeed because they know where they’re going.” — Earl Nightingale
  • “Perpetual optimism is a force multiplier.” — Colin Powell
  • “Sometimes our best is simply not enough.  We have to do what is required.” — Winston Churchill
  • “Success equals goals … all else is commentary.” — Brian Tracy
  • “Success is 20% skills and 80% strategy.  You might know how to read, but more importantly, what’s your plan to read?” — Jim Rohn
  • “The bad news is time flies. The good news is you’re the pilot.” — Michael Althsuler
  • “The merit in action lies in finishing it to the end.” — Genghis Khan
  • “The path to success is to take massive determined action.” — Anthony Robbins
  • The question for each man to settle is not what he would do if he had means, time, influence, and educational advantages, but what he will do with the things he has.” — Hamilton Wright Mabie
  • “The reward of a thing well done is to have done it.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “The seat of freedom is reserved for the man who lives by his own work, and in that work, does what he wants to do.” — George Robin Collingwood
  • “Unless you are willing to drench yourself in your work beyond the capacity of the average man, you are just not cut out for positions at the top.” — J.C. Penny
  • “We are either progressing or retrograding all the while; there is no such thing as remaining stationary in this life.” — James Freeman Clarke
  • “What we hope to do with ease, we must learn first to do with diligence.” — Samuel Johnson
Self-Awareness
  • “After all, all knowledge simply means self-knowledge.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Fear comes from uncertainty; we can eliminate the fear within us when we know ourselves better.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Heed the still small voice that so seldom leads us wrong, and never into folly.” — Marquise du Deffand
  • “In learning to know other things, and other minds, we become more intimately acquainted with ourselves, and are to ourselves better worth knowing.” — Philip Gilbert Hamilton
  • “Know thyself means this, that you get acquainted with what you know, and what you can do.” – Menander
  • “Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom.” – Aristotle
  • “Make it thy business to know thyself, which is the most difficult lesson in the world.” — Miguel de Cervantes
  • “No one can see their reflection in running water. It is only in still water that we can see.” — Taoist Proverb
  • “Our business in life is not to get ahead of others, but to get ahead of ourselves.” — Zig Ziglar
  • “Pay no attention to what the critics say; no statue has ever been erected to a critic.” — Jean Sibelius
  • “The easiest person to deceive is one’s own self.” — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
  • “The most difficult thing in life is to know yourself.” – Thales
  • “The only journey is the journey within.” — Rainer Maria Rilke
  • “To become different from what we are, we must have some awareness of what we are.” — Bruce Lee
  • “To conquer oneself is the best and noblest victory; to be vanquished by one’s own nature is the worst and most ignoble defeat.” – Plato
  • “To know oneself is to study oneself in action with another person.” — Bruce Lee
  • “We see the world, not as it is, but as we are.” – Talmud
  • “When you know yourself and your opponent, you will win every time. When you know yourself but not your opponent, you will win one and lose one. However, when you do not know yourself or your opponent, you will be imperiled every time.” — Sun Tzu
  • “What progress, you ask, have I made? I have begun to be a friend to myself.” — Hecato
Strengths
  • “Exert your talents, and distinguish yourself, and don’t think of retiring from the world, until the world will be sorry that you retire.” — Samuel Johnson
  • “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.” — Bruce Lee
  • “I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love than to be a success at something you hate.” — George Burns
  • “I learned that the only way you are going to get anywhere in life is to work hard at it.  Whether you’re a musician, a writer, an athlete or a businessman, there is no getting around it.  If you do, you’ll win — if you don’t you won’t.” — Bruce Jenner
  • “I refer to my hands, feet and body as the tools of the trade. The hands and feet must be sharpened and improved daily to be efficient.” — Bruce Lee
  • “If we all did the things we are capable of, we would astound ourselves.” — Thomas Edison
  • “It’s not that I’m so smart; it’s just that I stay with problems longer.” — Albert Einstein
  • “Practice all movements slow and fast, soft and hard; the effectiveness of Jeet Kune-Do depends on split-second timing and reflexive action, which can be achieved only through repetitious practice.” — Bruce Lee
  • “The happiest life is that which constantly exercises and educates what is best in us.” – Hamerton
  • “Use what talents you possess: the woods would be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.” — Henry Van Dyke
Thinking
  • “A fresh mind keeps the body fresh. Take in the ideas of the day, drain off those of yesterday. As to the morrow, time enough to consider it when it becomes to-day.” — Edward Bulwer-Lytton
  • A man’s dreams are an index to his greatness.” — Zadok Rabinwitz
  • “All men who have achieved great things have been great dreamers.” — Orison Swett Marden
  • “All successful men and women are big dreamers.  They imagine what their future could be, ideal in every respect, and then they work every day toward their distant vision, that goal or purpose.” — Brian Tracy
  • “Champions aren’t made in the gyms.  Champions are made from something they have deep inside them — a desire, a dream, a vision.” — Muhammad Ali
  • “Choose the positive. You have choice, you are master of your attitude, choose the positive, the constructive. Optimism is a faith that leads to success.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water my friend.” — Bruce Lee
  • “Enter every activity without giving mental recognition to the possibility of defeat.  Concentrate on your strengths, instead of your weakness … on your powers, instead of your problems.” — Paul J. Meyer
  • “Great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.” — Albert Einstein
  • “I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination.  Imagination is more important than knowledge.  Knowledge is limited.  Imagination encircles the world.” — Albert Einstein
  • “If you think you can do a thing or think you can’t do a thing, you’re right.” — Henry Ford
  • “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” — Albert Einstein
  • “Is is in the small decisions you and I make every day that create our destiny.” — Tony Robbins
  • “It is the repetition of affirmations that leads to belief.  And once that belief becomes a deep conviction, things begin to happen.” — Claude M. Bristol
  • It’s amazing what ordinary people can do if they set out without preconceived notions.” — Charles F. Kettering
  • No great improvements in the lot of mankind are possible until a great change takes place in the fundamental constitution of their modes of thought.” — John Stuart Mil
  • “No man is ever whipped until he quits — in his own mind.” — Napoleon Hill
  • “Nothing can stop the person with the right mental attitude from achieving his goals. Nothing on earth can help the person with the wrong mental attitude.” – Thomas Jefferson
  • “Our greatest battles are that with our own minds.” — Jameson Fran
  • “Real difficulties can be overcome; It is only the imaginary ones that are unconquerable.” – Theodore N.Vail
  • “Shoot for the moon. Even if you miss, you’ll land among the stars.” — Les Brown
  • “Some of the world’s greatest feats were accomplished by people not smart enough to know they were impossible.” — Doug Larson
  • “That some achieve great success, is proof to all that others can achieve it as well.” — Abraham Lincoln
  • “The biggest temptation is to settle for too little.” — Thomas Merton
  • “The difference between success and mediocrity is all in the way you think.” — Dean Francis
  • “The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short, but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.” – Michelangelo
  • “The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is, and the future less resolved than it will be.” — Marcel Pagnol
  • “The revelation of thought takes men out of servitude into freedom.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “The spirit of the individual is determined by his dominating thought habits.” — Bruce Lee
  • The winners in life think constantly in terms of I can, I will, and I am.  Losers, on the other hand, concentrate their waking thoughts on what they should have or would have done, or what they can’t do.” — Dennis Waitley
  • “Thoughts and ideas are the source of all wealth, success, material gain, all great discoveries, inventions and achievements.” — Mark Victor Hansen
  • ‘What is’ is more important than ‘what should be.’ Too many people are looking at ‘what is’ from a position of thinking ‘what should be’.” — Bruce Lee
  • Whatever we think about and thank about, we bring about.” — Wayne Dyer

Merry Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!

Merrry Christmas.

Merrry Christmas.

 

Christmas Time is finally here,
It only comes but once a year.
And it’s a  time to spread good cheer,
To those we love and hold so  dear.

Christmas Time is a time of glee,
A time when peace and love run  free.
A time for those like you and me,
To sit beneath the Christmas  Tree.

Christmas Time is a time of joy,
A time to sit back and  enjoy.
The smile on each girl and boy,
As they play with a Christmas  Toy.

Christmas Time is a time to share,
The passing of another  year.
Birth of Jesus, a joyful prayer,
To show loved ones how much we  care.

Christmas Time is a time for song,
A time for us to get  along.
To make us feel Lord Jesus strong,
Forgive all those who did us  wrong.

Christmas Time is a time to pray,
Put love and kindness on  display.
Show compassion along the way,
Christmas Time should be everyday

by Ronald Doe

 

Confidence Quotes

“As is our confidence, so is our capacity.”

Life

  1. “A ship is safe in harbor, but that’s not what ships are for.” – William Shedd
  2. “Knock the ‘t’ off the ‘can’t.’” — Samuel Johnson
  3. “Life marks us all down, so it’s just as well that we start out by overpricing ourselves.”Mignon McLaughlin
  4. “Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” — Anaïs Nin
  5. “Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent.” — Eleanor Roosevelt
  6. “The man of genius inspires us with a boundless confidence in our own powers.”Ralph Waldo Emerson
  7. “They can do all because they think they can.” – Vergil

8. “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Henry S. Haskins

  1. “When you have confidence, you can have a lot of fun. And when you have fun, you can do amazing things.” — Joe Namath
  2. “Whether you think you can or think you can’t – you are right.” — Henry Ford

Action

Here are the best confidence quotes on action:

  • “Action is a great restorer and builder of confidence. Inaction is not only the result, but the cause, of fear. Perhaps the action you take will be successful; perhaps different action or adjustments will have to follow. But any action is better than no action at all.”Norman Vincent Peale
  • “Attempt easy tasks as if they were difficult, and difficult as if they were easy; in the one case that confidence may not fall asleep, in the other that it may not be dismayed.” — Baltasar Gracian
  • “Crystallize your goals. Make a plan for achieving them and set yourself a deadline. Then, with supreme confidence, determination and disregard for obstacles and other people’s criticisms, carry out your plan.” — Paul J. Meyer
  • “Experience tells you what to do; confidence allows you to do it.” — Stan Smith
  • Gather in your resources, rally all your faculties, marshal all your energies, focus all your capacities upon mastery of at least one field of endeavor.” — John Haggai
  • “I think that feeling that if one believed absolutely in any cause, then one must have the confidence, the self-certainty, to go through with that particular course of action.” — Wole Soyinka
  • “I think that the power is the principle. The principle of moving forward, as though you have the confidence to move forward, eventually gives you confidence when you look back and see what you’ve done.” — Robert Downey, Jr.
  • Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” — Dale Carnegie
  • “It is best to act with confidence, no matter how little right you have to it.” — Lillian Hellman
  • “Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” — Helen Keller
  • “To win, all you
    need to do is get up one more time than you fall down.”
    — Anonymous

Boldness

Here are the best confidence quotes on boldness:

  • “A great deal of talent is lost to the world for want of a little courage. Every day sends to their graves obscure men whose timidity prevented them from making a first effort.” — Sydney Smith
  • “All of us have wonders hidden in our breasts, only needing circumstances to evoke them.” — Charles Dickens
  • “As long as I can remember I feel I have had this great creative and spiritual force within me that is greater than faith, greater than ambition, greater than confidence, greater than determination, greater than vision. It is all these combined. My brain becomes magnetized with this dominating force which I hold in my hand.” — Bruce Lee
  • Confidence is that feeling by which the mind embarks in great and honorable courses with a sure hope and trust in itself.” – Cicero
  • “Danger breeds best on too much confidence.”Pierre Corneille
  • “Don’t let anyone steal your dream. It’s your dream, not theirs.” — Dan Zadra
  • “Fortune favors the brave.” – Virgil
  • “If you develop the absolute sense of certainty that powerful beliefs provide, then you can get yourself to accomplish virtually anything, including those things that other people are certain are impossible.” — Tony Robbins
  • “Nothing reduces the odds against you like ignoring them.” — Robert Brault
  • “People are slow to claim confidence in undertakings of magnitude.” – Ovid
  • “The man who acquires the ability to take full possession of his own mind may take possession of anything else to which he is justly entitled.” — Andrew Carnegie
  • “The usual channels of university studies or secretarial work did not appeal to me. I cherished difficult dreams through confidence in myself.” — Ella Maillart
  • “There can be no great courage where there is no confidence or assurance, and half the battle is in the conviction that we can do what we undertake.” — Orison Swett Marden
  • “To me, there is no greater act of courage than being the one who kisses first.” — Janeane Garofalo

Character

Here are the best confidence quotes on character:

  • “Besides pride, loyalty, discipline, heart, and mind, confidence is the key to all the locks.” — Joe Paterno
  • “Confidence contributes more to conversation than wit.” — Francois de La Rochefoucauld
  • “Confidence is at the root of so many attractive qualities, a sense of humor, a sense of style, a willingness to be who you are no matter what anyone else might think or say …” — Wentworth Miller
  • “Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence.” — Vince Lombardi
  • “Confidence is courage at ease.” — Daniel Maher
  • “How often in life we complete a task that was beyond the capability of the person we were when we started it.” — Robert Brault
  • He who has faith has… an inward reservoir of courage, hope, confidence, calmness, and assuring trust that all will come out well – even though to the world it may appear to come out most badly.” — B. C. Forbes
  • “I was thinking of my patients, and how the worst moment for them was when they discovered they were masters of their own fate. It was not a matter of bad or good luck. When they could no longer blame fate, they were in despair.” — Anaïs Nin
  • “I’ve always had confidence. It came because I have lots of initiative. I wanted to make something of myself.” — Eddie Murphy
  • “Ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge: it is those who know little, and not those who know much, who so positively assert that this or that problem will never be solved by science.” — Charles Darwin
  • “Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.” — Lao Tzu
  • “Leadership is a matter of having people look at you and gain confidence, seeing how you react. If you’re in control, they’re in control.” — Tom Landry
  • “Men give their confidence at once, but never their money.” — Tristan Bernard
  • “Sex appeal is fifty percent what you’ve got and fifty percent what people think you’ve got.” — Sophia Loren
  • “Shyness has a strange element of narcissism, a belief that how we look, how we perform, is truly important to other people.” — André Dubus
  • “The mark of a truly civilized man is confidence in the strength and security derived from the inquiring mind.”Felix Frankfurter

Competence

Here are the best confidence quotes on competence:

  • “I don’t believe in team motivation. I believe in getting a team prepared so it knows it will have the necessary confidence when it steps on a field and be prepared to play a good game.” — Tom Landry
  • “My intent is simply to know my material so well that I’m very comfortable with it. Confidence, not perfection, is the goal.” — Scott Berkun
  • “Put your future in good hands – your own.” – Anonymous
  • “Regardless of how you feel inside, always try to look like a winner. Even if you are behind, a sustained look of control and confidence can give you a mental edge that results in victory.” — Diane Arbus
  • “Skill and confidence are an unconquered army.” — George Herbert
  • “The big gap between the ability of actors is confidence.” — Kathleen Turner
  • “There is no worse screen to block out the Spirit than confidence in our own intelligence.” — John Calvin
  • “You have to expect things of yourself before you can do them.” — Michael Jordan
  • “You need to play with supreme confidence, or else you’ll lose again, and then losing becomes a habit.” — Joe Paterno

Courage / Fear

Here are the best confidence quotes on fear and courage:

  • “Confidence comes not from always being right but from not fearing to be wrong.” — Peter T. Mcintyre
  • “Confidence is key. Sometimes, you need to look like you’re confident even when you’re not.” — Vanessa Hudgens
  • “Courage is a mean with regard to fear and confidence.” – Aristotle
  • “Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear.” — Mark Twain
  • “I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship.” — Louisa May Alcott
  • “I quit being afraid when my first venture failed and the sky didn’t fall down.” — Allen H. Neuharth
  • “Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” — Anaïs Nin
  • “Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt.” — William Shakespeare
  • “Self trust is the essence of heroism.” – Emerson
  • “The best way to gain self-confidence is to do what you are afraid to do.” – Anonymous
  • “We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face… we must do that which we think we cannot.” — Eleanor Roosevelt

Critics / Criticism

Here are the best confidence quotes on critics and criticism:

  • “It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else’s eyes.” — Sally Field
  • “Men are not against you; they are merely for themselves.” — Gene Fowler
  • “Other people’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality.” — Les Brown
  • “Pay no attention to what the critics say. A statue has never been erected in honor of a critic.” — Jean Sibelius
  • “The more we refuse to buy into our inner critics – and our external ones too – the easier it will get to have confidence in our choices, and to feel comfortable with who we are – as women and as mothers.” — Arianna Huffington
  • “We probably wouldn’t worry about what people think of us if we could know how seldom they do.” — Olin Miller
  • “You’re never as good as everyone tells you when you win, and you’re never as bad as they say when you lose.” — Lou Holtz and John Heisler

Limitations

Here are the best confidence quotes on limitations:

  • “A person can grow only as much as his horizon allows.” — John Powell
  • “Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn’t be able to fly, but the bumblebee doesn’t know that so it goes on flying anyway.” — Mary Kay Ash
  • “All that Adam had, all that Caesar could, you have and can do…. Build, therefore, your own world.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “Argue for your limitations and, sure enough, they’re yours.” — Richard Bach
  • “Chiefly the mold of a man’s fortune is in his own hands.” — Francis Bacon
  • “If we all did the things we are capable of doing, we would literally astound ourselves.” — Thomas Alva Edison
  • “If you hear a voice within you say “you cannot paint,” then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced.” — Vincent Van Gogh
  • “It is folly for a man to pray to the gods for that which he has the power to obtain by himself.” – Epicurus
  • “It is not the mountain we conquer but ourselves.” — Edmund Hillary
  • “It’s not who you are that holds you back, it’s who you think you’re not.” – Anonymous
  • Learning too soon our limitations, we never learn our powers.” — Mignon McLaughlin
  • “Never dull your shine for somebody else.” — Tyra Banks
  • “No power in society, no hardship in your condition can depress you, keep you down, in knowledge, power, virtue, influence, but by your own consent.” — William Ellery Channing
  • “Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent.” — Eleanor Roosevelt
  • Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside of them was superior to circumstance.” — Bruce Barton
  • “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.” — Marianne Williamson
  • “The light of starry dreams can only be seen once we escape the blinding cities of disbelief.” — Shawn Purvis
  • Thousands of geniuses live and die undiscovered – either by themselves or by others.” — Mark Twain
  • “Whatever we expect with confidence becomes our own self-fulfilling prophecy.” — Brian Tracy
  • “Whether you come from a council estate or a country estate, your success will be determined by your own confidence and fortitude.” — Michelle Obama

Self-Confidence

Here are the best confidence quotes on self-confidence:

  • “Always hold your head up, but be careful to keep your nose at a friendly level.” — Max L. Forman
  • “Anyone who ever gave you confidence, you owe them a lot.” — Truman Capote
  • “As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.” — Johann von Goethe
  • Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.” — Norman Vincent Peale
  • “Confidence comes from hours and days and weeks and years of constant work and dedication.” — Roger Staubach
  • “Confidence is a very fragile thing.” — Joe Montana
  • Confidence is preparation. Everything else is beyond your control.” — Richard Kline
  • Growing up, I started developing confidence in what I felt. My parents helped me to believe in myself. I wasn’t the best looking guy, I wasn’t the best athlete in the world, but they made me feel good about myself.” — Herschel Walker
  • He who closes his ears to the views of others shows little confidence in the integrity of his own views.” — William Congreve
  • I have great faith in fools; self-confidence my friends call it.” — Edgar Allan Poe
  • I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence but it comes from within. It is there all the time.” — Anna Freud
  • I wouldn’t describe myself as lacking in confidence, but I would just say that – the ghosts you chase you never catch.” — John Malkovich
  • “If a man has been his mother’s undisputed darling he retains throughout life the triumphant feeling, the confidence in success, which not seldom brings actual success along with it.” — Sigmund Freud
  • If you doubt yourself, then indeed you stand on shaky ground.” — Henrik Ibsen
  • “If you have no confidence in self, you are twice defeated in the race of life. With confidence, you have won even before you have started.” – Cicero
  • Once you become self-conscious, there is no end to it; once you start to doubt, there is no room for anything else.” — Mignon McLaughlin
  • Perhaps a child who is fussed over gets a feeling of destiny; he thinks he is the world for something important, and it gives him drive and confidence.” — Benjamin Spock
  • “Self-assurance is contemptible and fatal unless it is self-knowledge.” — George Santayana
  • To succeed in life, you need two things: ignorance and confidence.” — Mark Twain

Self-Talk

Here are the best confidence quotes on self-talk:

  • “A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.” — Mark Twain
  • “Men harm others by their deeds, themselves by their thoughts.” — Augustus William Hare and Julius Charles Hare
  • “We have to learn to be our own best friends because we fall too easily into the trap of being our own worst enemies.” — Roderick Thorp
  • What a man thinks of himself, that it is which determines, or rather indicates his fate.” — Henry David Thoreau
  • “When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.” — African Proverb

Self-Worth / Self-Esteem

Here are the best confidence quotes on self-worth:

  • “Always act like you’re wearing an invisible crown.” – Anonymous
  • “Be humble, for the worst thing in the world is of the same stuff as you; be confident, for the stars are of the same stuff as you.” — Nicholai Velimirovic
  • “Be proud to wear you.” – Dodinsky
  • “Everybody wants to be somebody. The thing you have to do is give them confidence they can. You have to give a kid a dream.” — George Foreman
  • I am not a has-been. I am a will be.” — Lauren Bacall
  • If I am not for myself, who will be?” — Pirke Avoth
  • If I have lost confidence in myself, I have the universe against me.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “If you must love your neighbor as yourself, it is at least as fair to love yourself as your neighbor.” — Nicholas de Chamfort
  • “If you really put a small value upon yourself, rest assured that the world will not raise your price.” – Anonymous
  • “It ain’t what they call you, it’s what you answer to.” — W.C. Fields
  • “Lend yourself to others, but give yourself to yourself.” — Michel de Montaigne
  • “Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.” — Marie Curie
  • “Life marks us all down, so it’s just as well that we start out by overpricing ourselves.” — Mignon McLaughlin
  • “Of all our infirmities, the most savage is to despise our being.” — Michel de Montaigne
  • People are crying up the rich and variegated plumage of the peacock, and he is himself blushing at the sight of his ugly feet.” — Sa’Di
  • Self-love seems so often unrequited.” — Anthony Powell
  • “The courage to be is the courage to accept oneself, in spite of being unacceptable.” — Paul Tillich
  • The greater the artist, the greater the doubt. Perfect confidence is granted to the less talented as a consolation prize.” — Robert Hughes
  • The things we hate about ourselves aren’t more real than things we like about ourselves.” — Ellen Goodman
  • “The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others.” — Sonya Friedman
  • “They are the weakest, however strong, who have no faith in themselves or their own powers.” — Christian Bovee
  • Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy.” — Norman Vincent Peale
  • “Your problem is you’re… too busy holding onto your unworthiness.” — Ram Dass
  • “Your value is the product of your thoughts. Do not miscalculate your self worth by multiplying your insecurities.” – Dodinsky
  • “Your success depends mainly upon what you think of yourself and whether you believe in yourself.” — William J. H. Boetcker

General

Here are the best confidence quotes that are about confidence in general:

  • “A successful person is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him or her.” — David Brinkley
  • “A timid question will always receive a confident answer.”—Lord Darling
  • “Confidence … thrives on honesty, on honor, on the sacredness of obligations, on faithful protection and on unselfish performance. Without them it cannot live.” — Franklin D. Roosevelt
  • “Confidence is the most important single factor in this game, and no matter how great your natural talent, there is only one way to obtain and sustain it: work.” – Jack Nicklaus
  • “Discipline is based on pride, on meticulous attention to details, and on mutual respect and confidence. Discipline must be a habit so ingrained that it is stronger than the excitement of the goal or the fear of failure.” — Gary Ryan Blair
  • “He who has lost confidence can lose nothing more.” – Boiste
  • “Health is the greatest possession. Contentment is the greatest treasure. Confidence is the greatest friend. Non-being is the greatest joy.” — Lao Tzu
  • Honor bespeaks worth. Confidence begets trust. Service brings satisfaction. Cooperation proves the quality of leadership.” — James Cash Penney
  • “In the kingdom of hope there is no winter.” — Russian proverb
  • “It is not so much our friends’ help that helps us, as the confidence of their help.” – Epicurus
  • “It’s hard to fight an enemy who has outposts in your head.” — Sally Kempton
  • “Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “Logic is the art of going wrong with confidence.” — Joseph Wood Krutch
  • “No man has the right to dictate what other men should perceive, create or produce, but all should be encouraged to reveal themselves, their perceptions and emotions, and to build confidence in the creative spirit.” — Ansel Adams
  • “The circulation of confidence is better than the circulation of money.” — James Madison
  • “We are like the little branch that quivers during a storm, doubting our strength and forgetting we are the tree – deeply rooted to withstand all of life’s upheavals.” – Dodinsky
  • “We must keep on trying to solve problems, one by one, stage by stage, if not on the basis of confidence and cooperation, at least on that of mutual toleration and self-interest.” — Lester B. Pearson
  • “When a team outgrows individual performance and learns team confidence, excellence becomes a reality.” — Joe Paterno
  • “Winning breeds confidence and confidence breeds winning.” — Hubert Green

Why 23rd of November should be a national holiday!

Happy birthday Freddie!!!

 

God gave a gift to the world when you were born,

I celebrate your wonderful self!

Your birthday is as much a celebration for me as it is for you,

Maybe more,

A person who loves, who cares,

Someone who touches each life she enters,

And makes a difference in the world,

Because ripples of kindness flow outward,

As each person you have touched, touches others.

Your birthday deserves to be a national holiday,

Because you are special; you are peak,

One of a kind, you are unique,

For all that you’ve done,

May the love you have shown to others

Return to you, multiplied.

I wish you the happiest of birthdays.

And many, many more,

So that others have time to appreciate you

As much as I do!!!

 

Always Joseph.

 

Relationships!!

Make each day count!!

 

 

 
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She s

at down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes. Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.
In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. ♥

Steve Jobs

 

Entrepreneur Extraordinaire

 

Everyone knows that Steve Jobs was a superlative businessman who created fabulous products that substantially changed the world. But he was much more than that. He was a businessman-philosopher, and the philosophy he embraced was the fundamental cause of his remarkable productivity, success, and happiness

Steve has received a number of honors and public recognition for his influence in the technology and music industries. He has widely been referred to as “legendary”, a “futurist” or simply “visionary”, and has been described as the “Father of the Digital Revolution a “master of innovation”, and a “design perfectionist”.

With that said, I would like to share with you one of my fondest quotes from Steve Jobs

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living somebody else’s life, don’t be trapped by dogma which is living with the result of other peoples thinking, don’t let the noise of others opinions drown out your own inner voice and most importantly have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, they somehow already know what you truly want to become, everything else is secondary”

 

10 Financial Takeaways to Improve Your Financial Status.

Shop Wisely!

1. Live Below Your Means

Just because you can afford to buy something doesn’t mean you should, just because you make a good salary, or just got a raise, doesn’t mean you should spend it all, especially if you suddenly got a big jump in your income, keep your former standard of living and funnel the rest into paying off debts or adding to your retirement nest egg. Since you’re not lowering your existing budget or cutting expenses, you’ll be able to accomplish all this without feeling like you’ve had to cut back or make sacrifices.

Saving money!

2. Move Your Money Around

Redirect your money from one part of your financial life to another, more profitable area.

Take a couple of hours to figure out how to cut spending across your budget, making use of online apps and price-comparison sites to find cheaper alternatives on everything from electronic offers to cell phone service. Then, move those savings into an emergency or retirement fund, put them toward credit card debt or wherever else they’ll pay off.  This exercise has a big added benefit; it forces you to examine where your money is actually going and how much you’re paying for things. That in and of itself — mindfulness — will change your spending behavior simply because you’re paying attention.

Money when you most need it!

3. Grow Your Emergency Fund

If you don’t have an emergency fund, several of our experts said it’s a good idea to start one, even if you can just sock away a small amount every month. If you have an emergency fund, good for you — but chances are there’s not enough in it.

I think the single most important thing someone can do right now for their financial life is to make sure they have an adequately funded emergency fund, especially in these days of high unemployment and Global economic meltdown. Try and save a minimum of the equivalent of your six months’ pay if you think your job is in jeopardy.

The key is to be able to manage emergencies from savings, rather than having to liquidate your retirement account or leaning on a high interest credit card. Trying to resolve an emergency with a credit card can lead down a dangerous path of debt.  Keep your emergency fund in a high-yield savings account separate from the account you use for everyday expenses.

Plan your mortgage early!

4. Pay off Your Mortgage before Retiring

The term of your mortgage should not be longer than the number of years you plan to work.

After you retire, your income will probably drop, but your cost   of living won’t. Some expenses, like health care, are likely to climb — perhaps significantly. If you can eliminate the burden of a monthly mortgage payment, you’ll have more flexibility to handle any rising costs.

Monitor your spending habits!

5. Track Your Spending

It’s a basic building block of financial success, but so many people don’t do it.

Writing down every cent you spend over the course of a week will give you a very clear picture of exactly where your money is going.

It sounds like a basic idea, but it’s a step many people don’t take. Making it a habit to track your spending will reveal areas in which you need to cut back and at the same time shed light on what to buy and what is not necessary.

Valuable trash!

6. Act like You Can’t Just ‘Throw It Away’

Live as though you don’t have garbage pickup. If you act like you can’t just throw stuff away, it will make you more mindful about what you buy and consume in the first place. People no longer shop for products that stand the test of time.

We’re spending our hard-earned Dirhams on highly packaged products that are easily disposed of, our homes and landfills are cluttered with depreciated junk. The solution to saving more money is to stop wasting it on consumer items that quickly become garbage, and switching to quality items that endure.

 

Danger of credit cards!

7. Pay off Credit Card Debt

Pay off or pay down credit card debt with any existing savings. With credit card APRs averaging nearly 15%, people with credit card debt pay much more in interest than they can earn by having that money invested elsewhere.

If you don’t have any savings, there’s no way to sugarcoat it: You’ll have to make some budget decisions and give some things up.

Happy Retirement!

 

8. Put 10% of Your Income toward Retirement

Target to save and invest at least 10% of your income, no matter how little or how much you make. The sooner you start, the more wealth you’ll be able to build, Vernon says.

Even small amounts can add up over time.  Alternately, even older workers can benefit — it’s never too late to start building up your retirement nest egg, you’ll just need a more aggressive savings

Be a visionary!

9. Envision Your Future

Develop a single exciting mental picture of where you want to be in five years. Each day as you get out of your house and head for the Dubai Metro on the way to work think about that image. Maybe this sounds a little silly, but visualization is an effective motivational technique. It might feel like you’re just daydreaming, but you’re planting the seed of an idea in your brain. Even when you’re not actively thinking about it, that image is going to stay in the back of your mind.

The fastest way to move forward is not to focus on a to-do list of rational steps to move forward but instead to clarify in detail the outcome that you want. When that same outcome is kept top of mind for a sustained period of time, your attitude shifts … when you apply this consistently over time, real progress is made.

Make each day count!

10. Enjoy your hard earned wages!

To put this into context, remember money together with all the other fiscal benefits are just a means to an end and not an end in itself, hence time and again we should stop & take time to appreciate/‘smell the roses’  and enjoy our hard earned wages.

This is important because not only will you give value where it’s due, but also energize yourself to be able to conquer the next financial mountain and most importantly not to lose sight that money is not the source of Happiness but simply a means to a Happy Life.

 

One of my favorite mantras is ‘Make each day count’ and on that thoughtful note I wish you a Healthy & Happy Financial Life.

 

Jambu.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Richard Branson Quotes

A Phenomenal Leader.

Adventure and Fun

  • “A business has to be involving, it has to be fun, and it has to exercise your creative instincts.”
  • “Customers shouldn’t just think of your business as a place to buy a product or use a service — it should be a fun place to be.”
  • “First and foremost, any business proposal I like must sound fun.”
  • “I am prepared to try anything once.”
  • “I prefer to have a great time and to keep my wits about me.”
  • “I think the most important thing is that in the last seven days we’ve just had the greatest adventure of our lifetimes.”
  • “I’m inquisitive … and I love a new challenge… and if I feel that we can do it better than it’s been done by other people, we’ll have a go.”
  • “Some 80% of your life is spent working. You want to have fun at home; why shouldn’t you have fun at work?”
  • “Throwing yourself into a job you enjoy is one of the life’s greatest pleasures!”
  • “We’d love to be involved with the creation of something very special, something quite large and something quite exciting.”
  • “We’re going where no one has gone before. There’s no model to follow, nothing to copy. That is what makes this so exciting.”

Brand

  • “All you have in life is your reputation: you may be very rich, but if you lose your good name, then you’ll never be happy. The thought will always lurk at the back of your mind that people don’t trust you. I had never really focused on what a good name meant before, but that night in prison made me understand.”
  • “Branding is everything. A young girl once came up to me and told me I could be famous because I looked just like Richard Branson!”
  • “First of all, if you’re setting up a new company, you want to try to find a brand that can work on a global basis.”
  • “Good brands reflect the histories of the time and the group of people that made them. They can not be copied. They can not be recycled.”
  • “If you get your face and your name out there enough, people will start to recognize you.”
  • “In the beginning it was just about the business – now it’s about the brand.”
  • “Protect your reputation.  Don’t be afraid of making mistakes.”
  • “Quality brands never go bankrupt.”
  • “What does the name Virgin mean? We are a company that likes to take on the giants. In too many businesses, these giants have had things their own way. We are going to have fun competing with them.”

Business

  • “Above all, you want to create something you’re proud of. This has always been my philosophy of business.”
  • “I can honestly say that I have never gone into any business purely to make money. If that is the sole motive, then I believe you are better off not doing it.”
  • “Because I don’t see Virgin as a company but as a way of life and I fully enjoy it, I don’t think I’ll ever retire.”
  • “Business opportunities are like buses, there`s always another one coming.”
  • “Every business, like a painting, operates according to its own rules. There are many ways to run a successful company. What works once may never work again. What everyone tells you never to do may just work, once.”
  • “I love stirring the pot.  I love giving big companies a run for their money — especially if they’re offering expensive, poor-quality products.”
  • “I never get the accountants in before I start up a business. It’s done on gut feeling, especially if I can see that they are taking the mickey out of the consumer.”
  • “Most “necessary evils” are far more evil than necessary.”
  • “Our model is to develop each business separately with its own shareholder and management – this way we can concentrate on the job in hand, rather than be part of some enormous and faceless conglomerate.”
  • “Perhaps my early problems with dyslexia made me more intuitive: when someone sends me a written proposal, rather than dwelling on detailed facts and figures I find that my imagination grasps and expands on what I read.”
  • “We’ve got an engaging, edgy, vibrant, fun product, … It may or may not work, but we’re going to give it our best shot.”
  • “When we start a new venture, we base it on hard research and analysis. Typically, we review the industry and put ourselves in our customer’s shoes to see what we could do better.”

Challenges

  • “Although my spelling is still sometimes poor, I have managed to overcome the worst of my difficulties through training myself to concentrate.”
  • “Complexity is your enemy. Any fool can make something complicated. It is hard to keep things simple.”
  • “However tight things are, you still need to have the big picture at the forefront of your mind.”
  • “I just like to enjoy life and push myself. Of course, there is method to my madness. When you are entering into a new industry, for example, it helps to do something to get your name on the front pages.”
  • “My biggest motivation?  Just to keep challenging myself.  I see life almost like one long university education that I never had.”
  • “”My interest in life comes from setting myself huge, apparently unachievable challenges and trying to rise above them.”
  • “My mother was determined to make us independent. When I was four years old, she stopped the car a few miles from our house and made me find my own way home across the fields. I got hopelessly lost.”
  • “Records are made to be broken. It is in man’s nature to continue to strive to do just that.”

Entrepreneurism

  • “I believe that drudgery and clock-watching are a terrible betrayal of that universal, inborn entrepreneurial spirit.”
  • “I think a lot of becoming an entrepreneur is something which people have to learn just from getting out there and giving it a go, and having to learn the art of survival.”
  • “I wanted to be an editor or a journalist, I wasn’t` really interested in being an entrepreneur, but I soon found I had to become an entrepreneur in order to keep my magazine going.”
  • “I was never, ever interested in becoming a businessman or an entrepreneur.  If I was a businessman, or saw myself as a businessman, I would have never gone into the airline business.”
  • “The quickest way to become a millionaire in the airline business is to start out as a billionaire.”
  • “There are no rules. You don’t learn to walk by following rules. You learn by doing, and by falling over, and it’s because you fall over that you learn to save yourself from falling over. It’s the greatest thrill in the world and it runs away screaming at the first sight of bullet points.”
  • “To be successful, you have to be out there, you have to hit the ground running, and if you have a good team around you and more than a fair share of luck, you might make something happen. But you certainly can’t guarantee it just by following someone else’s formula.”
  • “What’s the quickest way to become a millionaire? Borrow fivers off everyone you meet.”
  • “You never know with these things when you`re trying something new what can happen. This is all experimental.”

Leadership

  • “As much as you need a strong personality to build a business from scratch, you also must understand the art of delegation. I have to be good at helping people run the individual businesses, and I have to be willing to step back. The company must be set up so it can continue without me.”
  • “I may be a businessman  in that I set up and run companies for profit, but when I try to plan ahead and dream up new products and new companies, I’m an idealist.”
  • “Once again, I was the captain of my ship and master of my fate.  I believe in myself. I believe in the hands that work, in the brains that think, and in the hearts that love.”
  • “You shouldn’t blindly accept a leader’s advice.  You’ve got to question leaders on occasions.”

Life

  • “I am impressed with just the enthusiasm for life and the fact that some of these people are in their 80’s, even 90’s, and they’re absolutely determined to get out there and make a difference.”
  • “As we drifted to earth I sat up on the glass roof of the capsule, watching the beauty of the golden dawn as it broke over the desert. This was a day I never thought I’d see and the rising sun and growing warmth of the day seemed very precious. It made me aware that hard-won things are more valuable than those that come too easily. It reminded me to always enjoy the moment. “
  • “I don’t think of work as work and play as play. It’s all living.”
  • “I love the freedom of movement that my phone gives me. That has definitely transformed my life.”
  • “Life can seem rather unreal at times.  Alive and well and loving one day.  No longer there the next.”
  • “Life is a helluva lot more fun if you say yes rather than no.”
  • “Ridiculous yachts and private planes and big limousines won’t make people enjoy life more, and it sends out terrible messages to the people who work for them. It would be so much better if that money was spent in Africa – and it’s about getting a balance.”
  • “You only live once, and I just don’t want to waste a minute of my life.”

People First

  • “A company is people … employees want to know … am I being listened to or am I a cog in the wheel? People really need to feel wanted.”
  • “Having a personality of caring about people is important. You can’t be a good leader unless you generally like people. That is how you bring out the best in them.”
  • “I cannot remember a moment in my life when I have not felt the love of my family. We were a family that would have killed for each other – and we still are.”
  • “I know enough to know that no man is an island.”
  • “Respect is how to treat everyone, not just those you want to impress.”
  • “The companies that look after their people are the companies that do really well. I’m sure we’d like a few other attributes, but that would be the most important one.”

Purpose

  • “For a successful entrepreneur it can mean extreme wealth. But with extreme wealth comes extreme responsibility. And the responsibility for me is to invest in creating new businesses, create jobs, employ people, and to put money aside to tackle issues where we can make a difference.”
  • “I’ve had to create companies that I believe in 100%. These are companies I feel will make a genuine difference. Then I have to be willing to find the time myself to talk about them, promote them and market them. I don’t want to spend my life doing something that I’m not proud of.”
  • “Look, if you can indulge in your passion, life will be far more interesting than if you’re just working.  You’ll work harder at it, and you’ll know more about it. But first you must go out and educate yourself on whatever it is that you’ve decided to do – know more about kite-surfing than anyone else. That’s where the work comes in. But if you’re doing things you’re passionate about, that will come naturally.”
  • “People have to decide on priorities if they want to get anywhere.  The best lessons I learned was to just do it.”
  • “The important thing is that you’ve got a strong foundation before you start to try to save the world or help other people.”
  • “Well, I’m somebody who is just living …living life, and if I get frustrated by something, then I like to try to put it right.”

 

3 Lessons Learned During 3 Years of #IS Blog.

Reblogged from Inspiring Shipments (#IS) by Ivana Sendecka:

Click to visit the original post

Hi hi hi my dear SCG,

believe it or not, on 17th September 2012  this blog reached another milestone on its journey. Three years ago was the first time I have posted a blog post in this digital space. Naive,   enthusiastic , fearless, driven,  a bit "I know it all",   "let me save the world" Ivana  posted a video about quitting my job and with title "

Read more… 920 more words

this is a post from a special person i hold dear for the depth of knowledge that she has shared to the masses and on a personal level because she inspired me to start blogging some two years ago. thanks Ivana.

The Background Scenery of Life

scenery

Dear readers,this is a guest post from a friend who i also consider my mentor. Mr. Amir Anzur who is also a Webpreneur, Learnaholic and teacher

Enjoy!!!!!

Look around you.  Are you in a 5 star hotel?  Or the “ghetto” part of your town?  Are you driving inside a brand new Mercedes?  Or are you inside a beat-up old car?

Are you eating in a fancy restaurant with an expensive menu, big plates and small food?  Or are you eating at a cheap fast-food joint?  Are you on holiday in the Caribbean or are you spending time in your own neighborhood?

The world is your background scenery.  When you are eating it doesn’t really matter if you are in a fancy restaurant or a downbeat place – these are just the background scenery.  What matters is who you are with.

When you start your business, you city or office won’t matter.  You could have the best furniture or recycled old furniture.  What matters is who is sitting on the seats besides you.  Who you interact with rather than what is happening in the background.

Marketing has taught us that a Louis Vuitton handbag or a new car makes better background scenery than where you are currently in life.  That eating at a more expensive restaurant will make the food taste better than at a cheaper place.

Once you see through the clutter of marketing.  And begin to appreciate the world for what it is – background scenery.  You can start to appreciate what you have.  Marketers will try and convince you that you need to “pimp up your life”.  That you need a more expensive car, more expensive house, more expensive clothes and to stay in more expensive hotels.  But remember that this is all background to your scenery of life.

What makes a movie worth watching is not usually the background scenery.  It is the characters and the plot.

Do not focus too much on the background scenery, it is not what people watch a movie for.

Make the movie of your life worth watching.  Get better characters and create a better plot for the movie of your life.

by Amir Anzur

 

 

 

 

Gratitude Quotes

Gratitude!!

  1. “Act with kindness, but do not expect gratitude.” – Proverb
  2. “A man’s indebtedness is not virtue; his repayment is. Virtue begins when he dedicates himself actively  to the job of gratitude.” — Ruth Benedict
  3. “Ambition breaks the ties of blood, and forgets the obligations of gratitude.” – Sallust
  4. “Appreciation can make a day, even change a life. Your willingness to put it into words is all that is necessary.” — Margaret Cousins
  5. “As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.” — John F. Kennedy
  6. “Develop an attitude of gratitude, and give thanks for everything that happens to you, knowing that every step forward is a step toward achieving something bigger and better than your current situation.” — Brian Tracy
  7. “Don’t pray when it rains if you don’t pray when the sun shines.” — Satchell Paige
  8. “Every professional athlete owes a debt of gratitude to the fans and management, and pays an installment every time he plays. He should never miss a payment.” — Bobby Hull
  9. “Friendship based solely upon gratitude is like a photograph; with time it fades.” — Carmen Sylva
  10. “Gratefulness is the key to a happy life that we hold in our hands, because if we are not grateful, then no matter how much we have we will not be happy — because we will always want to have something else or something more.” — David Steindl-Rast
  11. “Gratitude bestows reverence, allowing us to encounter everyday epiphanies, those transcendent moments of awe that change forever how we experience life and the world.” — John Milton
  12. “Gratitude changes the pangs of memory into a tranquil joy.” — Dietrich Bonhoeffer
  13. “Gratitude helps you to grow and expand; gratitude brings joy and laughter into your life and into the lives of all those around you.” — Eileen Caddy
  14. “Gratitude is a burden upon our imperfect nature, and we are but too willing to ease ourselves of it, or at least to lighten it as much as we can.” — Philip Stanhope
  15. “Gratitude is a duty which ought to be paid, but which none have a right to expect.” — Jean-Jacques Rousseau
  16. “Gratitude is one of those things that cannot be bought. It must be born with men, or else all the obligations in the world will not create it.” — Edward F. Halifax
  17. “Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul.” — Henry Ward Beecher
  18. “Gratitude is the inward feeling of kindness received. Thankfulness is the natural impulse to express that feeling. Thanksgiving is the following of that impulse.” — Henry Van Dyke
  19. “Gratitude is the most exquisite form of courtesy.” — Jacques Maritain
  20. “Gratitude is the sign of noble souls.” – Aesop
  21. “Gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind.” — Lionel Hampton
  22. “Gratitude isn’t a burdening emotion.” — Loretta Young
  23. “Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” — Melody Beattie
  24. “Gratitude to gratitude always gives birth.” – Sophocles
  25. “Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.” — Melody Beattie
  26. “Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude.” — Denis Waitley
  27. “Happiness is itself a kind of gratitude.” — Joseph Wood Krutch
  28. “If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, ‘thank you,’ that would suffice.” — Meister Eckhart
  29. “It’s a sign of mediocrity when you demonstrate gratitude with moderation.” — Roberto Benigni
  30. “Joy is a heart full and a mind purified by gratitude.” — Marietta McCarty
  31. “Joy is the simplest form of gratitude.” — Karl Barth
  32. “Kindness trumps greed: it asks for sharing. Kindness trumps fear: it calls forth gratefulness and love. Kindness trumps even stupidity, for with sharing and love, one learns.” — Marc Estrin
  33. “Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.” — Marcel Proust
  34. “Maybe the only thing worse than having to give gratitude constantly is having to accept it.” –William Faulkner
  35. “Next to ingratitude the most painful thing to bear is gratitude.” — Henry Ward Beecher
  36. “No one who achieves success does so without acknowledging the help of others. The wise and confident acknowledge this help with gratitude.” — Alfred North Whitehead
  37. “One can never pay in gratitude: one can only pay ‘in kind’ somewhere else in life.” — Anne Morrow Lindbergh
  38. “One looks back with appreciation to the brilliant teachers, but with gratitude to those who touched our human feelings. The curriculum is so much necessary raw material, but warmth is the vital element for the growing plant and for the soul of the child.” — Carl Jung
  39. “One of the surest evidences of friendship that one individual can display to another is telling him gently of a fault. If any other can excel it, it is listening to such a disclosure with gratitude, and amending the error.” — Edward G. Bulwer-Lytton
  40. “Thankfulness is the beginning of gratitude. Gratitude is the completion of thankfulness. Thankfulness may consist merely of words. Gratitude is shown in acts.” — Henri Frederic Amiel
  41. “The debt of gratitude we owe our mother and father goes forward, not backward. What we owe our parents is the bill presented to us by our children.” — Nancy Friday
  42. “The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated.” — William James
  43. “The essence of all beautiful art, all great art, is gratitude.” — Friedrich Nietzsche
  44. “The hardest arithmetic to master is that which enables us to count our blessings.” — Eric Hoffer
  45. “There is as much greatness of mind in acknowledging a good turn, as in doing it.” – Seneca
  46. “To educate yourself for the feeling of gratitude means to take nothing for granted, but to always seek out and value the kind that will stand behind the action. Nothing that is done for you is a matter of course. Everything originates in a will for the good, which is directed at you. Train yourself never to put off the word or action for the expression of gratitude.” — Albert Schweitzer
  47. “We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck. But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness.” — Ellen Goodman
  48. “When you are grateful fear disappears and abundance appears.” — Tony Robbins
  49. “You say grace before meals. All right. But I say grace before the concert and the opera, and grace before the play and pantomime, and grace before I open a book, and grace before sketching, painting, swimming, fencing, boxing, walking, playing, dancing and grace before I dip the pen in the ink.” — G. K. Chesterton

Old Flame!

Panganay

Through the months

I have consistently thought of you

My heart longs for your tender love

Sweet beautiful like the evening sun

Warm and unique like who you really are

Time and again

As I constantly reminisced of us

It finally dawned on me that we were meant to be

And though circumstances tried to pull us apart

I know our deep love for each other will pull us through

So criminal to keep lovebirds asunder

As the time away from you was most painful for me

Here I am making amends for letting you go

And fighting for the love of my life, with every fiber in me

Fully acknowledging that my life without you is incomplete…

always and forever

jambu.

Lessons learnt from Guy Kawasaki

Guy Kawasaki

 

  1. Make a mantra, not a mission.  Mission statements are often too long or they don’t resonate.  You need something you can easily remember, easily say, and identify with.  Summarize your cause in 2 or 3 words.  According to Guy, some effective examples might be Nike – “authentic, athletic performance” and Wendy’s – “healthy, fast food.”  The key is to capture the essence in just a few words.  This helps remind you of your cause and reinforce it with your actions.
  2. Make meaning over money.  According to Guy, “Evangelism starts with the desire to make meaning.”  When you focus on the money, you focus on the wrong thing.  You have to first make meaning.   You need to mean something to the world and to your customers.  “The root of great companies is make meaning vs. make money.” – Guy Kawasaki.
  3. Know what you want your life to be about.  Know what you want your life to be about and live your mantra.  Guy lives his life, actualizing his mantra “empowering Entrepreneurs.”  I like this approach, and I’ve been thinking about refining mine.  It might be closer to “results by design” or “proven practices for results” or “empowering Underdogs.”  Whenever I think about my posts, I’m asking, is it helping lift people up or help them be their best in any situation.
  4. Be unique and valuable.  This is the key to effective marketing.  If you’re not unique, you’re competing on price.  Eventually, you’ll be priced out of the market.  If you are unique, but you aren’t valuable, then you have no market.  The sweet spot is valuable to the market and unique.
  5. The secret of evangelism is touch things that are gold. Don’t evangelize crap.  Evangelize great things.  “The secret of evangelism is Guy’s golden touch – whatever is gold, Guy touches.  That’s very different than saying whatever Guy touches turns gold.” – Guy Kawasaki
  6. Remember DICEE to make great things.  This is how to be great out of the gate.  According to Guy, DICEE is an acronym to help remind you how to make things that are gold.  “D” is for Deep.  It has to have lots of power.  You don’t run out of power and you’re not waiting for a more powerful version.  It anticipated what you need to do.  “I” is for Intelligent.  It’s a smart solution to a problem.  “C” is for Complete.  Great products are complete.  Complete means the totality of what the product means   This means all the stuff around the product (the OEMs, the forums, the plug-ins, service, support … etc.) “E” is for Elegant.  When you look at it, you inherently know what to do.  You can kind of figure out without a manual.  “E” is for Emotive – great products have emotion.
  7. Don’t worry, be crappy.   Ship, then test.  Don’t wait for the perfect world, or you’ll never ship.  As long as you are truly making meaning and you have a revolution, the market will accept elements of crap.  Ship something revolutionary with elements of crappiness to it.  You can then prioritize which crap to improve based on real usage and feedback.
  8. Version it.  Think in terms of versions.  Ask, “what’s good enough for now?”  It’s not about slicing and dicing value and spreading it out over time.  Instead, it’s about being complete and good enough for now so that you don’t miss the market.  It’s also about continuous improvement over time.  Each version should be a useful, relevant, and marked improvement.  Guy thinks in terms of versions all the time.  In one example, he says, “My wife was in Beta with our second child … Shipped on time and no bugs.”  He also versioned his Alltop project. (see Alltop Version 2.0: The Art of Aggregation)  and he versioned, Entrepreneurship (See Entrepreneurship 2.0.)
  9. Don’t let the Bozos grind you down.  Don’t listen to people that tell you that you’ll fail, because if you don’t try, then you definitely will fail.  According to Guy, there are two types of Bozos.  One type of bozo is a loser.  You don’t listen to them anyway, so that’s not the dangerous bozo.  The dangerous bozo is the rich, successful, well-known person.  Remember that rich, successful and well-know does not equal smart.  “Inoculate yourself from dangerous bozos.” – Guy Kawasaki.
  10. Smile, it’s contagious.  Guy wears a smile often.  It’s easy to find pictures of him flashing his pearly whites and it’s contagious.  Take yourself seriously, but not too seriously.  “Life is good.” – Guy Kawasaki
  11. Ask, “Is it defensible?” This is about evaluating startups against the following:  Proven team?  … Proven management?  … Proven technology?  … Proven business model?  These are some of the early warning flags that you don’t want to get in the way or that you have a good answer for.
  12. Follow the 10-20-30 rule for content, length, and font.  Use a maximum of 10 slides.  Your presentation should be no more than 20 minutes, even if it’s an hour presentation.  Use a 30 point font.  It forces you to put the core text.  If you need to use a smaller font it’s because you don’t know your material.  If you start reading your material, your audience will read ahead and stop listening to you.  See The 10/20/30 Rule of PowerPoint and Video: Guy Kawasaki 10-20-30 Presentation Rule.
  13. Pitch your ideas in 10 slides.  Pitch your ideas more effectively.  Don’t be a solution looking for a problem, make meaning, and show how you’ll make money.  The idea is to communicate enough, not everything and stimulate interest, not seal the deal.  10 slides forces you to focus on the essentials and the fewer slides you need, the more compelling the idea.  According to Guy, here’s what those 10 slides should be:  1) Title and what you do slide 2) problem slide, 3) solution slide, 4) business model slide, 5) underlying magic (secret sauce) slide, 6) marketing and sales slide, 7) competitive landscape slide, 8) management team slide, 9) financial projects and key metrics slide, 10) current status slide.  See The Art of Pitching MP3.
  14. Ask, “So what? … Who gives a shiitake?” This is about asking, why does it matter, and who does it matter for.  According to Guy, you can do this by imagining a little guy on your shoulder that asks you, “so what?”  You can make this very effective by pairing up “so what?” with “for instance.”  After you answer, the “so what?” question, you can then give a real world, concrete example starting off with, “for instance …”
  15. Make it personal. Personalize over generalize.   Instead of talking about paradigm shifts, make it real and make it relevant to the person.  What does it mean to them?
  16. Success is a numbers game.  It’s a numbers game.  According to Guy, how venture capitalism really works is, that out of 20 – 30 bets, 1 or 2 succeed.  Of course, when your 1 or 2 bets succeed, you tell everybody how you knew it all along, and how it’s your partner that missed the other 18.  Guy readily admits he missed predicting the successes of Yahoo, Google, and YouTube.  See Gnomedex 2007 – Guy Kowasaki.
  17. Be a straight shooter.  Keep it human.  Guy speaks in simple terms and keeps it real.  Whether you’re talking about your mantra or benefits of your product for people, don’t speak in lofty terms.  Keep it down to Earth.  Be authentic.  Be true to you.  Don’t be a suck up.  Guy’s a perfect blend of down to Earth, politically incorrect, and authentic, that we can model from.
  18. Create very slippery slopes.  This is about creating glide paths for adoption.  Adoption shouldn’t be a pill that’s too big to swallow.  Create very slippery slopes.  This means thinking in terms of incremental buy-in and incremental adoption.
  19. It’s a beautiful time for Entrepreneurs.   Now is a perfect time to be an Entrepreneur.  Test your ventures.  Ship something.  Show an adoption curve that’s growing.  Put something out and “prove the dogs are eating the food.”   You can test your ventures without depending on VC funding to start.  For example, instead of a million dollars in development and marketing costs to test an idea, it’s $12k.  This is how much it cost for Guy to spin up Truemors.  See By the Numbers: How I built a Web 2.0, User-Generated Content, Citizen Journalism, Long-Tail, Social Media Site for $12,107.09.
  20. Align your interests.  This is about “alignment of interest” vs. “conflict of interest.”  Line up with the people, ideas, and things you believe in. See The Short Tale: Much Ado About Not Much.
  21. It’s about the experience.   Make the most of every experience and live life to the fullest.  Guy has a way of creating and sharing engaging experiences.  See 26 Hours at Sea: The Longest Posting in the History of Blogging and BlogHer Pictures for examples of experiences.
  22. Let 100 flowers blossom.   Find what works for you and your customers, then stand back and let your flowers bloom.  You can’t necessarily predict what will work and what won’t.  Instead, fan the flames of what works and get out of the way.
  23. Find a coalition of the willing.   It’s way easier to sell to an existing customer or to somebody who is not already entrenched in a competing product or idea.  Build your raving fans, by building on your existing fan base and by winning over folks that are untainted.   According to Guy, it’s more effective to preach to the choir or focus on the agnostic, than try to convert the atheist.  Another way to put it is, focus on the market you’ve got, versus the one you don’t.
  24. Know the real influencers.   Don’t spend all your energy on the CXO level.  Win over the front-lines and people in the trenches.  They’re the ones that will ultimately be your raving fans and will do your word-of-mouth marketing for you.  They will either be your resistance or your champions.  Create a tipping point with opinion leaders, such as the engineer’s engineer.
  25. Be creative and productive.  Guy is life imitating art.  Being an Entrepreneur is all about creating something bigger than yourself.  To be effective, you need to be productive.  Guy regularly shares his life hacks on his blog, and Alltop is a great example of a creativity and productivity.

 

by J.D